parents: do they deserve their kids?

i dont know whether it was me or smth but today in and after mass, i kept noticing families.

There was this family of 4- parents and 2 boys. The parents were looking after the toddler of course but they really ignored the older son. he was at most 7 yrs old and he was like trying to help get the stroller ready for his brother and kept showing his mom like "hey mom i did this for him" with a BIG GRIN; then the mom kept asking him to shut up? you should have seen his face you know! he looked so sad and lonely then he just played with the hanger on the stroller and kept quiet after a while.

after mass i saw this family walking past the church. there's a longkang separating the church from the road but its a small one and in this family there was a 'disformed' young woman (feel so bastard for writing that but i think she had an accident cos her face was drooping to one side). The family like separated themselves from this woman you know like- she was one side of the longkang and the rest of the family were on the other side? and they seemed like they didnt care that she wasnt near them whilst she kept looking over at her family on the other side.

Like cant u tell your kids need ur attention? i dont know. im quite affected by this actually